Father to a Son- Elizabeth Jennings
(A) Short Answer-type Questions (About 30-40 words each)
Q1.
Explain the lines: “Yet have I killed
The seed I spent or sown it where
The land is his and none of mine?”
Ans. the father means to say
that he has sowed the seeds of his ideas into his son’s mind, but his ideas did
not cause any fruitful effect there. The son did not mould his own personality
in the frame which his father had desired.
Q2. Explain the lines:“This child is built to
my design
Yet what he loves I cannot share.
Silence surrounds us…..”
Ans. The meaning in the
above lines is very much clear. The father says that the son has full physical
resemblance with him.
Q4. What is the reason for this kind of
relationship between the son and the father in the poem?
Ans. It is the communication gap that is responsible for such a bad type of relationship
between the father and the son. Sometimes
fathers behave like a boss. So, sons do not feel comfortable in sharing their
‘joys and sorrows’ with them. They feel more comfortable with their mothers.
Q5. What can be estimated about the
son’s state of mind from the lines, “He speaks: I cannot understand
Myself, why anger grows from grief.
We each put out an empty hand,
Longing for something to forgive.”
Ans. From the above lines, one thing is clear that the son
is confused about ‘something’. A constant struggle may be going on in his mind.
It may be about making a type of compromise that is made when one fails or
feels helpless to proceed further with the present odd situation.
It is a kind
of compromise which takes place when one is defeated. The son may have
struggled hard to make his career, but may have failed in this competitive
world. Now he might be thinking to come back his father’s house.
Q 6. Explain the lines: “We each put out an empty hand, /Longing
for something to forgive.”
Ans. In the above lines, ‘we’ stands for ‘the father’ and
‘the son’. The father says that each of them extend his empty hand forward to shake and long to
forgive each other. The question arises here as to why the adjective ‘empty’
used in front of the noun ‘hand’.
When a person shakes hands with another
person, the hands are always empty. But if the meaning is taken at the deeper
level, the hand is never empty. It has warmth of love. But in this case, the emotion of love is
missing at present. It has to take place in the new relationship that will
emerge out of ‘sorrow’.
(B)
Some Important Stanzas for
Comprehension
Stanza
1
“I do not understand this child
Though we have lived together now
In the same house for years.”
Q1. Who is
“I” in the above stanza?
Ans. It is
the father in the above stanza.
Q2. Why does
the “I” say that he does not understand that child?
Ans. The
father does not understand what the son wants.
Q3. Who is
the child mentioned in the stanza?
Ans. The child
is the son of the father, the narrator in this poem.
Q4. Name the
poem and its poet.
Ans. The title of the poem is Father to Son and the poet is Elizabeth Jennings
Stanza 2
“Yet have I killed
The seed I spent or sown it where
The land is his and none of mine? “
“We speak like strangers, there's no sign
Of understanding in the air. ..”
“This child is built to my design
Yet what he loves I cannot share.
Silence surrounds us…..”
Q1. For What
does the ‘seed’ stand ?
Ans. It
stands for the seed of ideas.
Q2. Why does
the father say that he has spent the seed he had sown?
Ans. He says
so because his son’s mind-set is different from his own. He expected the same
ideas as he has in his mind.
Q3. Why do
they behave like strangers?
Ans. No ideas were common between them. That’s why they
speak like ‘strangers’.
Q4. What is
the reason for this kind of relationship between the son and the father in the
poem?
Ans. It is
communciation gap that is responsible for such a bad type of relationship
between the father and the son. Sometimes
fathers behave like a boss. So, sons do not feel comfortable in sharing their
‘joys and sorrows’ with them. They feel more comfortable with their mothers.
Q5. What is meant by the word ‘design’ in the
poem?
Ans. Here ‘design’ means physical structure and
resemblance.
Q6. Explain
the expression: ‘what he loves I cannot share’.
Ans. When the father says that ‘what he loves I cannot
share’, he means to say that his son has different likes, dislikes, tastes and
so many other ideas.
Stanza 3
“I would have
Him prodigal, returning to
His father's house, the home he knew,
Rather than see him make and move
His world….”
Q1. Who is a
prodigal son?
Ans. ‘A prodigal son’ is the one who has left
his family to do something that his family did not allow him to do, and after
sometime, he has returned home feeling sorry for his mistake.
Q2. What
does the father want?
Ans. The
father wants that the son should return to his house unconditionally.
Q3. What do
the words ‘his father's house’ indicate?
Ans. The use
of the words ‘his father's house’ show that the father does not want his son
not to make his claim on the house. It shows father’s possessive nature also.
He wantes his son to possess him like a thing.
Q4. Explain the line: “Rather than see him make and move/His
world.”
Ans. The father would like that his son should come back
and he would not like to see him making his own house, making his own world
where he can move of his own.
The above
line “Rather than see him make and move/His world.” shows that the father does
not like that his son should become independent and develop his own world of
his own and where he could move freely. If he
returns home, he would forgive him. Thus, after forgiving him, he would shape
(develop) a new relationship out of the sad one that was there already
between them.
Stanza 4
“I would forgive him too,
Shaping from sorrow a new love.
Father and son, we both must live
On the same globe and the same land.”
Q1. What
does the father want to shape now?
Ans The
father wants to shape a new relationship out of the sad one.
Q2. What
thought has forced the father to develop a new relationship out of the old one?
Ans. The father reaches a conclusion that both the sone and the father must
live together in the same house.
Q3. What
meaning does the line ‘On the same globe
and the same land’may convey?
Ans. The
same globe stands for the earth and the same land means the same
nation/country.
Stanza 5
“He speaks: I cannot understand
Myself, why anger grows from grief.
We each put out an empty hand,
Longing for something to forgive.”
Q1. Who is
‘He’ in the above lines?
Ans. “he” is
the son in the above lines.
Q2. Who
cannot understand and what?
Ans. The son
cannot understand why anger grows in him from grief.
Q3. What do each of them long?
Ans. Each of
them long for something to forgive each other.
Q4. What
could be something in the above lines?
Ans. It
could be the past behavior that they showed towards each other.